#195 Happiness In Relationships

'....But Coach, why can't I expect happiness in my relationship, if he doesn't make me happy, then what's the point.' I got this question from one of my beloved coaching clients a few months ago during our session, and for the first time in my coaching career, I felt that the usual coaching response of 'It's not his job to make you happy' did not suffice. I paused for a while then turned the question on her 'What's the point indeed, what do you think the point of your relationship is?' Her question stayed with me for the rest of that day, I wondered if we coaches and teachers dig deep enough on some of these matters, or do we tend to slide into autopilot and coachiee language and responses. I really wanted to explore this topic further with a fellow coach, and when it comes to relationship matters there is no one better than my friend Jo Ntsebeza. So I called her up and we went for it. Jo and I often go to the very deep end when we converse, this conversation was no different, it has lots of aha moments and deep insights on the nature or relationships, it will irritate and liberate you at the same time. BIO  Jo Ntsebeza shows people how to break free from negative relationship patterns & emotional dependency so they can experience deeper love in their lives. Jo is the founder of Love Shift Academy, The Dare To Love Club and the creator of The FreshStart Love Journey.  She's worked with leaders, managers and business owners in the SME, corporate, government and the public sector for over 25 years as a speaker, an executive and relationship coach, facilitator and trainer.  CONTACTS  Join the Dare To Love Club here
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